This book was gripping. It was powerful and moving, and showed the difficulties of growing up gay in a world so quick to condemn, persecute, judge. Kate Fagan is an amazingly strong woman to have gone through the things she did and still be so successful. She is a true inspiration. I recommend this book not only to those struggling to come out of the closet, but to those who believe in “Hate the sin, not the sinner.” I believe both will find great knowledge in this story. To those struggling to come out of the closet, you’ll feel stronger, braver, like you matter (which you do). Also- and this for the ‘hate the sin not the sinners’- you’ll finish this story and find that you’ve been so blind to the obviousness of the truth; that there is nothing, at all, wrong with being gay.